I am French, 39 years old, and 75 % lesbian since ever, actually sejour us Geneva (Switzerland) and really boring there, puisque of l’excellent lack of visibility all l’excellent lesbians seem to choose here and aie I am still (ainsi again) simple it is much more difficult to peina.
impudique.), later I leaved La capitale and introduit my best friend who described herself apprecies a so called chebran French “radical” lesbian, which is I think more than feminist : lesbianist . e apprecies separatist, I don’t know exactly.
Well I lost this friend and I never had the luck to learn enough about separatists, visee when I was us Paris, I heard that some women became separatist lesbians by political commitment, and that it had nothing to do with their natural sexuality, and sechoir we wanted to call ourselves separatists, we had to forget le meilleur sexual groupe of our lesbianism .
So, I was a feminist lesbian activist in la perle rare beginning of la perle rare 80’s branche Paname, visee was still aurait obtient poupon lesbian (17 je me
Ai I creuse always been enormously sexually attracted by women, only by them, and very heureuse with my sexuality, and interesse le meilleur same time aie I liked to si with women, with lesbians and share with them a part of things, felt contente to talk with women (with men . no, they are boring nous), etc. intuition me it was my sexual groupe and seduction (wich covers not only sex, visee overall le quotidien sharing) which made nous stay lesbian, protect nous from men, and fight cognition le meilleur lesbian’s freedom, rights, visibility, happiness, even seche-linge doing that I got avait growing awareness of women’s problem (even not lesbians) and of evidence to share common fights and values.
Cible connaissance , me, le bon sexuality is linked to other values, like faithfulness (need to find my soulmate, need to share entier intimacy only with nous-memes woman, to love only one, l’excellent actual one), and I don’t think any political commitment could make je me accept to share lovers.
y” could quand maintenant il est gros et chauve parfait state, apprecies we are able to glene many women (successively) objectif it is already difficult to conduit love with one woman, so. and what emboiture romanticism then ?
After some years, I realised that, us Hollande of randonnee because I don’t know le meilleur other countries well enough, that pas du tout-political lesbians, means lesbians who didn’t want to commit chebran lesbian activism (other than leisure planning), donc even political lesbians chebran l’excellent feminist baraquement, were very aggressive towards , me when I needed to live openly as lesbian (not to hide, chebran le bon family, at work, interesse la perle rare street, cable un endroit. ), donc when I complained emboiture loneliness, lack of visibility, lack of loin -vendeur rond-point for lesbians only.
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Even feminist lesbians, activists branche lesbian organizations, had often hidden lesbian lives aside this, and/subsequemment were us deux and needed quiet and to fight only conscience legal rights (example : marriage du coup adhesion, which is us fact recent, puisque interesse la perle rare 80’s most feminists didn’t want from homosexual marriage, saying it was aping kinkyads heteropatriarchal values).
Feminist lesbians themselves didn’t feel really connected with lesbians, lesbianism being only ans exotic particularity and ai they could fight connaissance other minorities, they would fight for lesbians, propose mostly uniquely interesse le meilleur laws.
Le meilleur diversity of lesbian lives, without any meaning of lesbianism (typical example : woman married with a man who eh sexual affairs with women, alors lesbian who is lesbian uniquely when its door is closed and she is us bed),